Undisputed

HIV/AIDS Vaccine

2009-10-13T12:38:00.000-07:00

Hi... your friend DoubleA here. Just short but good news. (haven't been able to type much since my hand is screwed up atm. when it heals i can put up longer entries)
SOO this one might be big. HIV/AIDS vaccine trial is questioned as experts check data... According to some experts who have had a firsthand look at the data, results of the first AIDS vaccine trial are promising. So lets hope this one works :) as always stay (sic) and take care of yourself.

                                                                                           DoubleA OUT

Kissing Tactics

2009-10-04T03:15:00.000-07:00

Being nervous when kissing a girl?

That's okay, after you have read that post, your nervousness is going to shrink big time.
First, know this: when you have made out with a girl, that's your first step from friendly relationship to more spicy one. I mean that's your little step closer to romantic relationship.

Why is this?

Because kissing allows her (and you) to judge how close you want to get with other person. If the kissing isn't good- then the all other things kissing leads to might not be good either! Life is a bitch, isn't it?
Kissing is important!

So heads up!

Too often, guys really can drop the ball when it comes time to "make the move" and go in for the kiss. Seriously, have you ever had a time when you wanted to kiss a girl, but all the action you wanted was just going in your head, not with her. Think, all that hot thing was passing away because you didn't have balls to go in for the kiss. You were too nervous.

Or you grabbed your balls and went for the kiss. But what happened? All that hoped sexy time was just plain awkward moment followed by strange nervous silence. All because of that you didn't calibrate right.

Don't beat yourself up, this happens and this happens A LOT with A LOT of guys.

All you have to do is to get things right. That's when the MAGIC happens.

A guy takes out a girl. They go out to dinner, dancing and bowling (those who know mini-dating theory, that makes sense). They were having a BLAST! Finally they ended up at an all-night diner.
They were sitting across from each other joking and laughing etc. He KNEW it was right time to kiss her.

But he was nervous and inexperienced. He knew that he didn't want to blow this chance but he also knew that he needed to take that chance.
So he looked to her eyes and told her to come close to him. Suddenly the look on her face changed. As though she knew where he was getting at, she got up slid right next to him.

He put his arm arm around her and slowly moved in.
She closed her eyes.

And THEN he proceeded to give her an "Eskimo kiss"!

(For those who don't know what that is, it's when you rub your noses together in a gentle, nuzzling way.)

Suddenly she opened her eyes and said:
"What are you doing? What was that?"
"Uh, an Eskimo kiss" he replied nervously.
"You called me over there to give me an ESKIMO kiss?" she asked.

He knew he was being plain retarded and kissed her right there. And this time correctly!
This lead to all other spicy things.

So, she was READY to be kissed, but he was holding back because of his nervousness. Learn from this lesson.

Now, we'll gonna go through some guidelines how to kiss a girl, so you don't end up like a complete retard.

First of all, don't kiss her when YOU feel like it, but when SHE feels like it. Some women are ready to be kissed in very little of time, but other need some more time.

There are ways to know when she is ready:

First: does she touch you a lot?

Touching is very erotic, no matter how you look at it. Is she reaching over and gently touching you when you talk?

Does she hug you?

Does she tap or punch you playfully?

Any form of touch is a sign of interest from a women. This is why dancing is so powerful. When she is willing to dance with then you know that she is willing to make out with you. Its the extension of the same thing!

Secondly: you need to test how comfortable she is to your touch?

Is she comfortable you touching her cheek, hair, neck and shoulder?
If she is then she is comfortable enough to be kissed. But when she isn't comfortable with your touching, back off a bit and try again later.

The third thing is: Look at her EYES!

When she is ready to be kissed, you'll notice two things about her eyes.

Her pupils will be dilated. The bigger her pupils are the more aroused she is.

Second of all: if her eyes are flickering back and fourth between your eyes, that's your 100% green light for you.

So here is how you initiate a kiss:

When you know she is ready, you reach out your and and cup her cheek and look directly into her eyes. Then you move slowly in and kiss her lips gently. And kiss them again and again, every time a bit more firmly.

If she respond you will take it more further and if she doesn't respond you will pull back.

Damn that post is getting long, so i stop here. Keep all these things in mind and don't act like a retard without balls.

addiction

2009-09-29T10:47:00.000-07:00

In this entry i will not be talking about alcohol, drug addictions but computer game addiction... When i need an example in this subject i dont have to look far because i was addicted to a computer game. But is computer game addiction as serious as any other addiction?
I was addicted to a game called World of Warcraft... fortunately i got over it and i think computer game addiction can be as devastating to you and the people you live with as any other addiction. For example i didnt go out with friends cause i tought if i missed one night of play then it would be catastrophic. Also i started to lose all kind of social life. The thing that saved me was music... i wanted to play the guitar so finally i quit the game and started rasing money... one summer of work and i got my guitar. Now i realise that i dont really NEED to play any game... dont get me wrong i still play computer games once in a while but not like i played them 4-6 months ago.
I do think that computer game addiction is as serious as other addictions because it can have some of the same devastating effects on your life as with other addictions. Overall its up to everyone to decide invidually... so what do you think?

-DoubleA

Are women attracted to ugly guys?

2009-09-28T12:16:00.000-07:00

I know you have had a fair share of strike outs with women.
But you just can't get every woman you want!
The thing is that when a guy gets rejected he thinks: "Damn, i feel bad, I think that it has something to do with my looks, I'm ugly. Oh why i don't look like Brad Pitt?"

Don't fret, that's a common insecurity that everyone (women and men) share. We're always on edge, wondering if we're good looking enough to get the women that we like.

But let's rumble your world a little bit. Are you on your toes? Should be. Here it comes!

Looks aren't THAT important! I know that you don't believe it so I'm going to say that again: Looks aren't THAT important!!! Got that?
Notice I didn't say looks AREN'T important. I said looks aren't THAT important.

There's a difference. Looks are important to an extent, but not as important as you may think. Most women have a lot of leeway in what they find attractive in a man, and this can be used to your advantage.

Many guys think girls look at men the way men look at women. When a man looks at a woman, he judges whether or not he's attracted to her based on her looks.
If she's overweight, has the wrong hair color, if her breasts are too small, if her nose is too big... whatever it may be, the man may dismiss her completely, regardless of whether or not she's a really great girl.
Because men look at women that way, it's natural for men to assume that's how women appraise us.This belief is both true, but at the same time misleading.
Women do take looks into account, but in the overall scheme of things, to women, looks play a smaller role in deciding whether they'll sleep with you than it does when it comes to men deciding if they'll sleep with a woman.

Remember that: Women are emotional creatures by nature.
If you look plain average, that's okay, but you can make all the difference by letting your positive traits shine. Your manly and sexually appealing personality.

Let's draw some parallel lines.

When a women meets a hot guy, she might feel GOOD at that time. That's just plain male logic isn't it? Now we are going to mix some female dating "logic" into that situation. Suddenly he starts to act like a wuss, supplicating, just being plain dumb, putting her on pedestal to worship her and any other attraction killer. He makes her feel bad emotions. She loses attraction and isn't interested in that guy anymore. So basically she chose emotions over looks.

So now you know that looks aren't THAT important. What makes the difference where you spend your night is how you make her feel. Hopefully you make her feel good emotions, you have to get away from boring and keep her on her toes. You have to be unpredictable.

So, what did you learn?

You can make bigger difference with your personality than looks.

Obama a sellout?

2009-09-24T12:57:00.000-07:00

Now before i start, i want to clear one thing up... yes i do not live in the US and this is only MY opinion so if you dont like it... write your own damn blog :D
This entry talks mostly about the health care reform... which IMO is the one of the most important things promised in the elections.
Obama talked about it in the elections and so did Mckain but the question was were they gonna really do it? As the title says Obama a sellout? that question was asked by many ppl before the health care reform was confirmed by the Obama adminsitration. So its safe to say know that Obama did not sell out and delivered what was promised. So in the US health care costs will be lowered and those people who didnt get health insurance because of a pre existing condition now will have no denial of coverage. Also it will be against the law for an insurance company to drop your coverage when you get ill. Also this reform covers some things for people who already have health insurance aswell... for example requiered coverage for preventive care so some diseases can be found in the early stages when they are not that serious. Of course there are many other things too but these were the things i found most important.
Overall i think Obama did the right thing when he signed the health care bill (which according to him will be passed this year) because over 46.3 million people in America were uninsured in 2008.

- DoubleA

Not getting your "game" on?

2009-09-24T12:05:00.000-07:00

Not getting enough success with women?
I want to tell you guys a little inspiring story.

Today we had sports class and we ran Cooper (You have 12 minutes to run as much as you can). This run takes your breath away, your feet become numb and every other shitty situation you could imagine. But i want to talk something else, I want to talk about a guy who ran it. He always finished in the middle, he always had a bunch of guys running more than him. But not today!
What happened? After the start he run as hard as he could. He could sense his legs going numb, his heart beating like it's going to explode and the taste of blood in his mouth. He struggled with these things, it was hard. It was a battle with himself. 12 minutes passed slowly. And finally it was over. He stopped and just sat down. His head was spinning, his heart was beating strongly. It was exhausting, it was like running for your life.
But guess what? This time no one ran more than him, no one even went past him. This time he was the BIG winner. He went running a couple of times a week in summer and he took the award of being the first.

The thing he did was practising. You need great deal of willpower not to stop when things go hard.

So how can you relate to him? You need to apply these things you learn here to your communication with women. You need to practise, you need to make things happen. And not less important you can't just quit when one woman blows you off. You can't take it personally. You need to have willpower to carry on whatever it takes! You have put your goal to get all the success you want with women. Don't stop until you have reached that goal! Don't just sit there and complain that you can't do it, you have to make it happen like he did! In the end you will be that big winner and all your efforts pay off. So gather the knowledge from here and put that knowledge in use!

- Your spiritual leader Cocky A

An Open Letter From A Lonely, Beautiful Woman To Herself

2009-09-23T07:57:00.000-07:00

"Dear Diary,

It seems like these days are all the same... one guy after another. I guess i should consider myself lucky, but at the same time it's so frustrating to be me

My boss was "flirting" with me again today. It's starting to make me feel uncomfortable... He'll come into my office for absolutely no reason and pretend he's letting me in on some kind of "secret" in the company. It's so obvious what he really wants. It's just like when I'm at the store and some strange guy will pretend to be shopping for something totally out of the ordinary (which they never end up buying) just to eye me up and down in the aisle. These guys just don't have a clue.

Tonight i finally went out with Brian. I was so excited... he seemed really nice at first, but then it just went on and on and on... ARGH! They just don't get it. It was like everything he did was to try to impress me, from making sure i approved of the restaurant (and the time, the table, and even the parking spot) to finding out my food preferences so he wouldn't order something i disliked FOR HIMSELF. It's not like i didn't have my own food coming!

It kind of made me sad actually, because he really did seem nice, but he was just missing that thing. It seems like none of these guys have that magical thing about them that my old flame James did. It's funny, because James wasn't exactly the most handsome guy around, and he certainly wasn't the modest, but there was just something magical about the way he carried himself... like he didn't have a care in the world. I can still feel it now when i think about him.

If he called me tonight everything would be perfect! But i know he won't, so I'll stop dreaming now.

I figured just ONE of these last few guys would make me happy. The gifts and the dinners are nice, (and Steve's yacht was amazing!) but none of these guys can make me feel the way did with him... It was so exciting... I never knew what was going to happen next.

I guess it's better to be wined and dined that sit home alone thinking about James, but it's really nothing special anymore knowing that some guy is just going to do whatever i want and give whatever i ask for... thinking that it's going to make me want him.

Where, oh where is a man that can make me feel that way again? And would it even be the same? I fear not. I just can't help but think of him over and over.

I wish so badly that i could just forget him and be happy with one of these nice guys that i keep meeting. It would make Mom so happy... but they just don't get it. What's a girl to do?"

That's a woman's diary post i got from David D's attraction e-book. I hope you can see whats going on there. She dates rich, nice looking men, but she doesn't feel satisfied.
Truth is these men just don't get it. So I'm going to post a lot more material to help you gradually become a man who gets it. This diary entry is perfect example how it is so important to have sexually compelling personality.
Where men focus more on LOOKS, women focus moreon PERSONALITY, SELF ESTEEM, POWER, and severalother more "intangible" qualities.
Now go read that diary entry once again and find what are these men doing wrong! But i can give you an insane hint: Women don't like guys who give all the power and control to women. Go figure.
- Guy with all the power Cocky A

Dating women: Stop being a wuss

2009-09-22T10:51:00.000-07:00

Tired of women getting bored of you?

Picture last time when you tried so hard to please her and all she did was keeping distance. Yeah, don't worry, it has happened to all of us. So what I'm going to tell you now will probably shatter your point of view on courting a women. Heads up, cause here it comes: YOU GOT TO STOP BEING NICE TO WOMEN! Yes, i said that, but that's not to be an asshole not nice. The thing you have to do is to stop kissing girls ass that you like. I mean you have to stop buying gifts and doing "out of space" amounts of favors. It's try hard behaviour and you have to stop doing that. You have to stop being an ass kissing WUSS! Being a wuss repels women instead of attracting them.

So, what's the case?
Without going into too much female psychology, the nice guy presents no challenge to women. Most of them want a guy who interest them and makes their mind tingle. They want a CHALLENGE!
When women need to work hard to get something, that thing has value, but if you make it easy to get you, then what? Right, you have no value.
You have to mark it down, what I'm going to say to you now. Remember that when you are interacting with a women you want to attract, you have equal value as her or even HIGHER. By thinking that she has higher social value than you, you'll be communicating that she will be doing a favor by getting into a relationship with you.
As a result, you HAVE to demonstrate that you're a challenge and hard to get to any woman you're trying to attract. This means you should create a strict set of standards and then ONLY do things if they comply with your personal code.

Furthermore, you should challenge women if they're disrespecting you or not matching up to your expectations.
While you might feel weird or think you're disrespecting women, there are strict rules for attracting them. By not kissing a girl's ass and doing everything she asks, you'll get rid of the 'Nice Guy' persona. This will help you transform yourself into the kind of guy who all women desire.

One of the best ways to stop being an ass kissing wuss is to learn how to be confident around women! Confidence is the most important virtue in my eyes you have to possess.
By carrying yourself with an "I don't care what happens" attitude, you'll act like a man who isn't concerned about the outcomes of an interaction with women. In fact, you'll look like you're not trying too hard.

So if you want to stop being a nice guy, you should set up a code of conduct and transform yourself into a confident guy. Then you'll become an interesting and exciting person.

You have to love yourself first to love others, you need to respect yourself.

Overall you have to be a godamn man!

- With all the knowledge Cocky A

10 years of MAYHEM

2009-09-21T08:50:00.001-07:00

2009 marks 10 years since slipknot's self titled (first) album came out... but how has the band changed over the years?
Well as some of you may know they change theyr outfits and masks each album cycle and also what changes is the music style (they like to experiment with music). They dont like to label themselves to a particular style so i won't either but it is metal, that much i can tell.
As they described themselves in 1999, they are 9 layers of extreme agression(why 9 layers? because the band has 9 members).
#0 Sid Wilson (DJ)
#1 Joey Jordison (drums)
#2 Paul Gray (bass)
#3 Chris Fehn (percussionist, backup vocals)
#4 James Root (guitar)
#5 Craig "133" Jones (sampling,keyboards)
#6 Shawn Crahan (percussionist, backup vocals)
#7 Mick Thomson (guitar)
#8 Corey Taylor (singer)
Each of the members obtained a number 0-8 in the band so that their names would not be revealed. Overall the masks, the numbers and coveralls did a pretty good job in concealing their identity. But about their music now (thought i wouldnt get there did ya :D) as said before its very aggressive and in particular the self titled album had a lot of songs with rap vocals and some people labeled them nu-metal because of that.they toured a lot during their self titled album cycle and the band members had many injuries during that time... just because they put on one hell of a show and as said by number 6 (clown) "Live is where we at,i dont give 2 shits about the interviews etc." Slipknot is known for their extreme live shows.
After the success of their self titled album the band decided to enter the studio to do a second album. What came out was excellent... in 2001 IOWA was released... a much darker and heavier album as before. During the IOWA album cycle their live shows got even better, more agressive and energetic. And in 2002 DISASTERPIECES was released... a DVD containing a live concert in london (wich was huge and COOL :D) and some other shit. They toured in ozzfest 2001 and Kill the Industry. This was in my opinion the best album slipknot has ever released.
Slipknot planned to make a third album towards the end of 2002 but this did not happen and during that time there was rumours that the band was going to split up.
Fortunately the band didnt split up and in late 2003 they began writing and recording their third album. On may 24 2004 slipknot's "VOL3:the Subliminal Verses" album was released. This is the most experimental album from the band to date...their songs were more melodic and they had some guitar solos which was all new for the band. in 2005 slipknot toured some concerts without their percussionist #6 (clown) because he was supporting his wife during an illness. During the Subliminal Verses album cycle Live 9.0 was released. It was a live album. Also in 2006 the band one their first and only Grammy for "before i forget". Later that year slipknot released Voliminal Inside the Nine DVD. Which had all kinds of content including unmasked interviews with the band members. in 2006 they were already on a brake that they started late 2005 and the dvd showedwhat they were doing during the brake etc. Late 2005 was the year when i started listening to slipknot (Yaaay). Also during their long brake again there were rumours about the band splitting up.
In 2008 they released their fourth studio album "All Hope Is Gone" was released, this was big for the band cause finally it topped FIRST on Billboard 200. This was not as experimental as the subliminal verses album but it was definately something new... there were a number of softer songs on the album. Personally i liked the album a lot and it's my second favourite slipknot album.
And here we are at 2009... Slipknot released their 10 year anniversary release of their self titled album and are currently touring.
They have definately changed over the years. But has the change been for the better? I think so... what do you think?

-DoubleA

Don't smash your chances for good conversation with women!

2009-09-20T05:28:00.000-07:00

Gents...

Today I'm gonna give you a little insight how not to ruin your conversation with women, so pay attention, it's for your own good. It's some material i have read from a bunch of guys, who know what they are doing. So let's put some knowledge in your little head, mate.

Not using enough humor

That's the main thing. Everybody needs a nice laugh. Basically, making women laugh is one of the quickest way to make her feel good. When she feels good around you, she does what? Think, my child, think. No, she doesn't want to talk about cars. She wants to be with YOU! So don't be serious all the time. You might think you can bore women to like you with topics like school, work and other boring things. Women want to you to talk about things that make them feel FUN, positive and desirable EMOTIONS. Humor is best when it is made up on the fly, while you are being real in the moment and listening to what is being said (and not said). So let your mind fly and have a easy-going attitude.

Not listening enough

It's so damn important. You can talk, but if you don't listen, it's not going to work out. It's like having dick with no balls. The best conversationalists LISTEN to the other person and THEN expand on what they have heard by offering their own perspectives, asking questions, making jokes and branching off to related topics.
I repeat: They listen and THEN they expand on the conversation. They don’t try to prepare conversation while the other person is speaking. If this means that they pause for a second, or talk slowly at the start of their response – that is FINE to them and to the woman. The point is: They LISTEN and everyone likes to talk to someone who ACTUALLY listens to them. So don't forget your balls.

Worrying what she will think

Rather big bunch of guys worry how they are doing in woman's eyes and when they mess up, they complain that talking to women is so hard that they rather get beat up than talking to women. So, number one thing to kill the conversation is our all great enemy: awkwardness. One of the things that causes this awkwardness is worrying about what she will think of what you say. If you come across as though you are holding back on saying things because you are afraid of what she’ll think, you can guarantee that 99% of women will NOT be attracted to you and your conversations with them will be awkward and end very quickly.

Being too pleasant or too nice

Have you ever been talking to someone who was TRYING to appear that they were just being nice to you, but you could SENSE that they were ‘up to something’ and trying to ‘get something from you’ or trying to ‘do you over’, so to speak?
Of course, we’ve all come across those kinds of people. Here's the thing though: If you are PUTTING ON the act of being nicer and more pleasant than you usually are when you talk to a woman – she WILL sense it and it WILL turn her off. It's like manipulating: you manipulate her to like you. But the thing is: IT DOESN'T WORK! You are who you are.

Not using enough flirting

If you don’t flirt with women, you will almost ALWAYS be seen as ‘just a friend’…or worse - nothing at all. Flirting is not a ‘should do’ for success in conversation with women, it’s a MUST do and cannot be skipped or overlooked. Tease her, make witty comments, make her feel good and create that sexual tension.

Maybe some other time i will write about things that create sexual tension, so in meantime keep those things in mind. Next thing is to go out and make the difference. Being a man is the best thing to do.

- Lad with a large harem. Cocky A

The fun machine took a shit! and died

2009-09-19T06:18:00.000-07:00

Ladies and gents

So an insight to my Friday. Firstly, that mind wrecking school week ended (what a relief). Had some positive vibes on doing some sports on Friday. Went to soccer practice, walked to the stadium and my eyes went wide: only 3 of us today! Damn, so there goes that practise, pretty fucked up. Went home and called up a friend of mine. Arranged a plan to go with her and some other girls to the Juku's party (where some 12 graders to some shit to the 10 graders). Yeah, it was pretty perverted, so it was damn funny. After that we went to eat at a local restaurant. Smoking hot waitresses there, like women in Sweden. Sweden is a place to go to meet beautiful women, mark that down! Called up my friend to come eat with us. That's one positive guy, I'll tell ya that. So we made some mad plans to get some costumes and have some fun on the city, let's see how that plan works out. So everybody were about to get going, suddenly, some old hag started to talk to us. Told us that you are living 21-st century life and how his time has passed (typical sad story). So on my way home i stumbled across some other friends, who were changing clothes on the street. Yeah, pretty random. They asked to join come with them to local pub. They had some company in there and to my big surprise, that pub was filled with mature people. All what was going through my mind was: "Damn!" Some guy playing the piano and singing, older people were enjoying their second youth. One of our guys trunk something that made his head spin and after that he complained how shit is to feel sober. Took a ride around the town. It was pretty late, so i went to get some sleep ( hey, had a massive party coming up at Saturday night, you gotta be in shape to give your all). And for all those who sit around your home and live routine life: Get your ass out and have some fun in life! You don't live twice! Go out and do things you like to do! Believe in yourself and rock your boat! Promise yourself that you do something new at next week and week after that and so on.

- Daddy, who invented beer. Cocky A

Getting this fucking thing started

2009-09-19T04:46:00.000-07:00

Hey Lads... This is the first post so lets make this blog worth a while. Our blog will have weekly entries about money, women and power (yeah, what a cliche.) Okay lets be serious now. We will write about all the things promised in the title (yeah we are that good). There are two of us and if you all act good we will give you the treat by posting more. If you have something in mind or want to ask about something just leave a comment or send an e-mail. Firstly you can read about our lives and about some of the things we are doing. Me (DoubleA) will be writing about music, fucked up politics and other things i like to talk about. I am a die hard maggot (slipknot fan) and from this blog you will also read about things related to slipknot (the best band in the world).
So keep tuning in.

- DoubleA