Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Dating women: Stop being a wuss

Tired of women getting bored of you?

Picture last time when you tried so hard to please her and all she did was keeping distance. Yeah, don't worry, it has happened to all of us. So what I'm going to tell you now will probably shatter your point of view on courting a women. Heads up, cause here it comes: YOU GOT TO STOP BEING NICE TO WOMEN! Yes, i said that, but that's not to be an asshole not nice. The thing you have to do is to stop kissing girls ass that you like. I mean you have to stop buying gifts and doing "out of space" amounts of favors. It's try hard behaviour and you have to stop doing that. You have to stop being an ass kissing WUSS! Being a wuss repels women instead of attracting them.

So, what's the case?
Without going into too much female psychology, the nice guy presents no challenge to women. Most of them want a guy who interest them and makes their mind tingle. They want a CHALLENGE!
When women need to work hard to get something, that thing has value, but if you make it easy to get you, then what? Right, you have no value.
You have to mark it down, what I'm going to say to you now. Remember that when you are interacting with a women you want to attract, you have equal value as her or even HIGHER. By thinking that she has higher social value than you, you'll be communicating that she will be doing a favor by getting into a relationship with you.
As a result, you HAVE to demonstrate that you're a challenge and hard to get to any woman you're trying to attract. This means you should create a strict set of standards and then ONLY do things if they comply with your personal code.

Furthermore, you should challenge women if they're disrespecting you or not matching up to your expectations.
While you might feel weird or think you're disrespecting women, there are strict rules for attracting them. By not kissing a girl's ass and doing everything she asks, you'll get rid of the 'Nice Guy' persona. This will help you transform yourself into the kind of guy who all women desire.

One of the best ways to stop being an ass kissing wuss is to learn how to be confident around women! Confidence is the most important virtue in my eyes you have to possess.
By carrying yourself with an "I don't care what happens" attitude, you'll act like a man who isn't concerned about the outcomes of an interaction with women. In fact, you'll look like you're not trying too hard.

So if you want to stop being a nice guy, you should set up a code of conduct and transform yourself into a confident guy. Then you'll become an interesting and exciting person.

You have to love yourself first to love others, you need to respect yourself.

Overall you have to be a godamn man!


- With all the knowledge Cocky A

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