I know you have had a fair share of strike outs with women.
But you just can't get every woman you want!
The thing is that when a guy gets rejected he thinks: "Damn, i feel bad, I think that it has something to do with my looks, I'm ugly. Oh why i don't look like Brad Pitt?"
Don't fret, that's a common insecurity that everyone (women and men) share. We're always on edge, wondering if we're good looking enough to get the women that we like.
But let's rumble your world a little bit. Are you on your toes? Should be. Here it comes!
Looks aren't THAT important! I know that you don't believe it so I'm going to say that again: Looks aren't THAT important!!! Got that?
Notice I didn't say looks AREN'T important. I said looks aren't THAT important.
There's a difference. Looks are important to an extent, but not as important as you may think. Most women have a lot of leeway in what they find attractive in a man, and this can be used to your advantage.
Many guys think girls look at men the way men look at women. When a man looks at a woman, he judges whether or not he's attracted to her based on her looks.
If she's overweight, has the wrong hair color, if her breasts are too small, if her nose is too big... whatever it may be, the man may dismiss her completely, regardless of whether or not she's a really great girl.
Because men look at women that way, it's natural for men to assume that's how women appraise us.This belief is both true, but at the same time misleading.
Women do take looks into account, but in the overall scheme of things, to women, looks play a smaller role in deciding whether they'll sleep with you than it does when it comes to men deciding if they'll sleep with a woman.
Remember that: Women are emotional creatures by nature.
If you look plain average, that's okay, but you can make all the difference by letting your positive traits shine. Your manly and sexually appealing personality.
Let's draw some parallel lines.
When a women meets a hot guy, she might feel GOOD at that time. That's just plain male logic isn't it? Now we are going to mix some female dating "logic" into that situation. Suddenly he starts to act like a wuss, supplicating, just being plain dumb, putting her on pedestal to worship her and any other attraction killer. He makes her feel bad emotions. She loses attraction and isn't interested in that guy anymore. So basically she chose emotions over looks.
So now you know that looks aren't THAT important. What makes the difference where you spend your night is how you make her feel. Hopefully you make her feel good emotions, you have to get away from boring and keep her on her toes. You have to be unpredictable.
So, what did you learn?
You can make bigger difference with your personality than looks.
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